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I thought if I made his life as easy and manageable as possible he would love me even more and would suddenly find the motivation to get his life in order.
MORE: 5 Things Every Woman Needs to Know About Men I’m not saying cheating in this case is okay or acceptable. When my ex cheated on me I was devastated and thought he was the world’s biggest scumbag.
I hated him and I hated her and I hated myself for getting involved with him and expending all that time and energy on him and the relationship.
However, in looking back I can understand exactly why it happened.
When a woman cheats, it’s usually because her emotional needs are no longer being met—maybe she no longer feels seen or cared for or understood.
When a man cheats, it is most often because he feels like a loser in the relationship.
It’s not that he doesn’t love his partner, she just can no longer connect to him in the way he wants most and when that sort of pure appreciation comes from another source he can’t help but be drawn to it. During the workday, he is on fire with passion and thrives off of meeting the daily challenges of his job.