Sex chat with fat men
One of my best friends is probably about 50 pounds overweight and she gets a lot of attention from guys, especially black and Latin men.
HOWEVER - I have been a size 14/XL and now I am a size 8-10/M and I get way more attention from men now. I don't think my face looks that different, and yes my slimmer figure is cuter, but its not like I have a "hot body" yet. So what my friends and I have concluded is simply - Men get sh*t for dating heavier women. Once you are not fat and you hang around younger men enough you will invariably hear jokes about drunken hookups with "fat chicks".
Of course there are exceptions to this - there are men out there that are totally not ashamed to be attracted to and love a heavier woman.
But socially, it is not really accepted among men so they hide it.
) I say strut ya stuff- Flaunt what ya momma gave ya girl! lol) ~Workout25 Tuesday, August 29, 2006, AM Edit please.......
(In my late 30's, and he thought I was too young to be REALLY attractive!
It is supposed to be embarrassing to get with a heavier woman because men are so focused on bodies, or at least they are supposed to be.
But its somewhat more acceptable to hook up with heavy woman while drunk, which is why sadly a lot of overweight girls (including myself) have random hook ups that never call, and don't get asked out often.
Men like the large breasts and butts that come with a larger package.
Tuesday, August 29, 2006, PM I think it depends on the guy ! I have atleast 60lbs to loose and I am 50 Can you believe Ive had men hit on me. Beauty is skindeep but ugly is through and through!
Tuesday, August 29, 2006, PM I have always been pysically attracted to fat women.
I think most men will be attracted to an outgoing larger sixed woman and a thinner girl who is a walflower ;) ~workout25 Tuesday, August 29, 2006, AM I dunno about the buff, health-conscious guys on PT, but I (female) go around town with a (female) friend who is 150# overweight, and guys just DROOL after her when they think no one sees them. I also went out for a while with a guy who was interested in much older women.
What i was meaning to say, was i personally think its about confidence!
i think attraction is about more than one's size-personality, manners, style, hair cut/makeup etc really make a difference too.